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You are not wrong if you object to a new idea, a progressive thought, a free person, a liberal ideology, a tomorrow, a hope, a possibility, a disruption in the everyday babble, a ripple in the stagnant conversation.

Your upbringing and the lessons taught to you, render you inept to adapt so soon. We are all victims of this deficiency. We were never taught to unlearn the language that judges, critiques, evaluates and terms you as terms (bitch, mental, retarded, weirdo, feminazi, *, *) .


But you

are wrong if you don’t correct yourself. You are accused if you don’t educate yourself of how these constructs and judge sheets, handed to every child from grandparents, parents, teachers, society -are scripted and narrow. How they objectify one, discard another, train another and outcast the ones left.

If you don’t stop and correct yourself, your neighbor, your sister, your parents, your industry- then you are wrong. Not mistaken, just wrong.





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